to a new generation

I am so sick of women and men lately (not that am going gay or some shit) am just fucking tired of how they portray each other lately. Babes are out there portraying man as cheaters, porn addicts, "trash". If your niggaz is hoe don’t stereotype all men like that. Here is ma thing I do know some guys are cheater and some do all that nasty stuff. Just like in the female world we have hoes, gold diggers... but it is not the whole generation for crying out loud. All we have to do is we choose to accept it was a wrong shot and we move on.

So I started wondering why men are holding such a bad reputation in the female world. We are supposed to be providers not cheaters, supporting not destroying and finally strong emotionally and mentally I realized we should not throw the whole fault on the female. We own like 60% of the drama. A generation passed and it was of cheaters and corrupt men instead of the new generation to try to change that picture we turned it into a trend. We made playing decent females a cool thing, we display our strength in violence and we portray that as power and no one has the guts to tell you it Is STUPID.

Another perspective I reflected on was whether it is the girls that misinterpret signs given by guys. I concluded that some women are in all rights to portray men as trash. Since if all she got from a father is abuse and it was the turn of her husband well she is convinced nothing good comes from us, I don’t even blame her. Then there is these bunches of hooligans that scream out men are trash, when you ask her why she just repeats the same sentence like a scratched record. STOP undermining men. Your father took care of you he is not trash; your friends are dating decent, caring boys, They are not trash. but you are their misinterpreting signs of every guy who does something for you and since he doesn’t date you; he becomes trash.

They most annoying and maddening thing is these woman that  don’t see how much effort a man is putting in pleasing her, just  because he can’t let you go through his phone. Understand these relationships are built on trust and if your level of trust is checking through your man’s phone let me tell you that is petite as fuck.  Therefore you result yourself into stealing his phone. Here is why men hate this it seems like a small crime but it’s a big blow to your faith in his word. A man’s word is the greatest thing that holds his dignity intact and if you and if you can’t trust that without proof then there is no reason to do that.

To all women out there that were not treated right by some guy, I can’t mend your scars or understand your pain but all I can do on behalf of all men I apologize. But don’t lose hope in whole gender because of one man or two.  If you are out there holding a grudge because of what you heard some men do and you spreading rumors please work on your stupidity. Stop and analyze the situation separate he goats from the lambs and talk about what you know rather than what you have heard. To all men being reckless and violent please stop being a burden to decent woman. And to all these stupid coming up generation thinking that woman are profit and loss accounts or some sort of branded material wake your punk ass up. She is human and more capable than you think treat her like the person she is not the one you want her to be. Be loyal, caring and watch everything fall in place

Finally, Women; we might be strong headed, overly suspicious, bad at communication and at times careless but we are also loyal, caring, and understanding. We are not perfect beings but we know we have a lot to learn.