Act

The reason i think most relationships fail nowadays is because things have become less about what we do for each other but more what we say for each other.
A simple example is look at the people you have spent the better half of your life. I aint talking about your family. Look in the outside circle. I am certain you dont say I love you that much to them but you know they do love you.
I know this is going to sound needy af and insecure but, people are tired doing things for you,  showing up when u need them to, comforting when you need them to and doing all dat stuff so you feel good; and you just sit there say "thanks you, oooh that is really sweet" fuck that. Well the thank you is nice but what the hell are u doing to much up to that goodness.
I know love is not you do this for me and i do dat for you. But love aint either i do shit for you and you sit and chill.  Do something for a change. No matter how little just fuckin do it.
Here is a secret that those people that do stuff for will never tell you "we get sick and tired of doing it" we get sick of that cause it feels like a one sided relationship the one side is in a relationship and you are trying to break it.
Well here for all you niggahs that call your boyfriends, and have weird nicknames for them. Its not Christmas and we are a week passed new years eve but go out there and do something for the people that make your life amazing.
Am. Not gonna end this one like a cliche and say "so think about.... " there is nada to think about go out there and do something for the people you care about period. JESUS LOVE DIDNT ONLY STOP ON THE WORDS HE SAID, BUT ON WHAT HE DID FOR YOU. 
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